“Though I love our image of the ‘perfect couple’, but if I read between the lines, may be I am unsatisfied.
It’s been three years, but I am still desperately waiting for the day when my lady love will take the sexual lead and surprise me with her moves. Many times, I thought of discussing it with her, but dropped the idea as she may find it derogatory. Though we share a great chemistry, be it in or outside the bedroom, still I crave for the day when she would make the first move,” confesses Samrat Tripathi, a 29-year-old Delhi-based media person.
Samrat isn’t the only one craving for his girl to initiate the action in bed. “Is it just me who wants sex?”, “Am I failing to satisfy her?”, “Is my technique wrong?”, “Does she wish for more pampering and foreplay?” are some of the thoughts that keep haunting men. This thought process keeps them so occupied that most of the time they fail to see some of the very obvious reasons for their problem.
It takes no rocket science to understand your beloved’s physical needs, you just need to be caring and sensitive to figure out what’s stopping her from making the first move. Here are some of the most common reasons holding her back…
Will he respond?Many women with fragile ego find it difficult to kick start the action in the bedroom, as the fear of rejection keeps hounding them.
Aarti Rawat, a call centre executive says, “I am not afraid of telling my boyfriend what I need from him, but something holds me back initiating sex. Guys are so complicated and it’s difficult to understand their needs so I keep guessing what’s on his mind. I can just give him subtle signals like rubbing my cheeks against his or a passionate kiss to reveal my innate desires, but most of the times he fails to understand my hidden passion within these moves. It obviously hurts me so, even if I want to, so I let him take the lead.”
Expert speak: Dr Sunil Mittal, a relationship counselor suggests, “There is a very simple rule in love, leave your ego hassles on the other side of the door. It is not only women who are frightened of rejection, at times men also feel the same. So first of all, start responding to the hints that your partner is dropping for you. If she kisses you, then respond in an equally passionate way. Don’t ignore her needs and cravings, even if you are very busy. Tell her you need some time if you are pre-occupied and let her feel you are intently listening to her desires. Tell her that you really love it when she makes the first move. It will definitely boost her confidence and her fear of rejection may disappear soon.”
The worse part about this isn’t that Princess Mary caught him trying to look at her breasts but rather the fact that he was caught on video… What I wouldn’t give to be in the room when this guy have to explain this shit to his wife. Yeah, have fun trying to explain to your president wife why you are viral on the Internet looking at the chest of the princess of a neighboring country. At least Princess Mary was not rude about this guy staring at her cleavage.
I guess Natalie is extra happy to see Hillary on this day.
The Supreme Court has broadened the ambit of right of life to bring in a citizen’s right to sleep peacefully under it. A citizen has a right to sound sleep because it right to sleep , the Supreme Court said on Thursday while ruling that the police action on a sleeping crowd at Baba Ramdev’s rally at Ramlila Maidan amounted to violation of their crucial right.
“Sleep is essential for a human being to maintain the delicate balance of health necessary for its very existence and survival. Sleep is, therefore, a fundamental and basic requirement without which the existence of life itself would be in peril,” the court said, terming it as a basic human right.
Authorities have taken steps to protect citizens from being disturbed while they are asleep, like placing curbs on the playing of music late at night. But Tuesday’s order elevates right to sleep in the hierarchy of rights and may goad the authorities to protect it.
A bench of Justices B S Chauhan and Swatanter Kumar was unanimous that the police erred gravely by clamping prohibitory orders under Section 144 of Criminal Procedure Code on the night of June 4 when the gathering at Ramdev’s yoga camp was sleeping peacefully.
Though Justice Kumar wrote the lead judgment, Justice Chauhan elaborated on sleep as afundamental right crucial to life and put it on the same plane as right to privacy and right to food, consistently held by the Supreme Court as an inviolable right which was part of right to lifeunder Article 21 of the Constitution.READMOREhttp://engagemalaysia.wordpress.com/2012/02/24/no-sex-for-you-obama-your-wife-right-sleep-dont-violate-her-crucial-right/
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